Ok, so I'm confused. In my last real post I mentioned the ways that I've seen my friendships change since being back at college.
The way I wrote it, (and continue to read it) it was completely observatory. I admitted that I haven't been making the efforts to talk to them as much, and implied that they had also not, although I don't think I ever directly stated it. I wasn't even meaning for it to be in a negative tone, just something I noticed. I figure that once we all get settled in things will be running a lot smoother and we'll have more time to talk and more to talk about.
I don't see how there is a personal attack within it on anyone, and I certainly didn't intend to make an attack on anyone through it. It has come to my attention, however, that it may have upset people.
I was not trying to discredit the friendships, I was more writing my observations of the changes that have been made, and wondering what the future holds for them, due to the fact that they've already begun to change.
I'm sorry if it hurt anyone, or upset anyone, or anything like that. It really was just random ideas that were floating around in my head and I wanted to get them out.
Oh, and also, I'm not trying to draw attention, or anything like that by saying what I said about not talking to old friends. I know that some people believe I enjoy being the center of attention and when I don't get enough it upsets me. There are times when I enjoy having a lot of attention paid to me, but this isn't one of those situations. Honestly, they were strictly observations not meant to be taken for more than face value but apparently they weren't interpreted as I intended when I wrote them. Anyways, sorry for the confusion.
